High school consists of some very odd couple of years. Your body is changing along with your emotions, friends, and school work. Some of your best experiences can happen during high school if you know what to expect. Here are 12 Things You Should Know Before Starting High School:
Get in the Habit of Studying
Immediately! You are going to have a very hard time studying effectively when you get home every day. Prepare to study at the same time everyday (preferably right when you get home). Your overall GPA will naturally drop without effective studying.
Save yourself from all the cramming and staying up late by getting in the habit of studying immediately.
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The 2 words that will save your life. It goes hand in hand with #1. Get an agenda, calendar, use your phone, or whatever you have to do in order to keep track of your plans everyday.
High school gets busy and it can be stressful if you don’t keep that busyness in check. Write down your homework for every class, things to do when you get home, important test dates, etc. Manage your time and life will be much easier.
Bullies Aren’t Real
Bullies are not a thing, as long as you don’t make them a thing. Remember, bullying is only possible with two participants. If you don’t allow the bully to get in your head, he loses his power as a bully.
Tip: If a bully ever says something to make fun of you, agree with them and smile. They’ll be totally shocked and immediately realize you aren’t worth their time to bully.
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It’s Not Like the Movies
Whatever you think you know about high school from movies is most likely not so true. Not everything falls in the place the way movies make it out to be. High school can be a great time, but don’t expect it to be some fairy tale of love, success, and friendships.
However, I have picked the movies that are most relatable to high school and put them in a list for you to watch.
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Make Positive Friends
“Tell me who your friends are, I’ll tell you who you are”. This quote cannot be more true. Your friends and social life makes you exactly who you are and who you will be. So don’t make friends with the kids who are cool, but slack off and do drugs.
Find the nice kids who are over achievers and you will be one too. Trust me, not all of those super nice and smart kids are weird. The popular kids that I made friends with were actually the smart ones.
Your Grades Are More Valuable Than You Think
People start to change mindsets around half way through high school. Kids start to believe that they’re just going to community college or a bad college and they start to get lazy with their work.
Everybody does it, but the easier you slip past that, the easier it will be on you to continue. Don’t mess up your GPA for such a dumb reason.
Don’t be Someone You’re Not
I know I know, you want to fit in and understand what everyone’s talking about. I did too, but the truth is, none of that is so important.
Sure, get into the trends and stuff, but don’t be a completely different person for someone else. You will lose real friends that liked (or will like you) for who you actually are.
Check out this post on How to Be Yourself by Lifehack.org
Focus on Extracurricular Activities
It is more important than taking a really hard AP class. Save yourself and your grades by taking decent classes, but focus on doing other things. Join a club you actually care about. Heck, start a club for something you actually care about!
There are a lot of great opportunities for doing things outside of school that will benefit you. Plus, it looks a lot better to colleges.
There’s A Difference Between Experiences and Being Stupid
I totally think you should gain experiences like dating, fun activities, and going to new places. However, experiences like experimentation with drugs and alcohol is simply a waste. Don’t do stupid things when you’re out with friends either.
I hate to bring it up, but I lost a good friend because she was hanging off the side of a car. It’s not worth it to do what your heart thinks is wrong. Stand up for yourself and just say no.
Start Turning a Passion into Something
If you really like something when you are starting high school, do something about it. For example, let’s say you love drawing and you’re really good at it too.
Start a club at your school, upload your drawings to social media, grow your passion, and form a solid base. It can pay off in the future for something to keep you occupied and maybe even make some money from.
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After 2 years of P.E. or sports, you are usually not required to take any physical type of class. Do yourself a favor and stay on that sports team, go to the gym after school, or whatever else you want to do to stay active.
I noticed a lot of my friends got lazy and even gained a little weight from not doing any exercise. Be the one to care about your body and your future by staying active.
Go for That Girl/Guy
Now is not the time to shy away from the things you want or are curious about. Don’t be afraid to make friends with that cute girl/guy in your grade. I promise you they’re just as human and as insecure as you are.
You never know, you can get a girlfriend/boyfriend out of it one day. So, don’t be afraid to go for it with a few people in high school. It’s great experience.
Starting high school is not scary. The experience you have will depend on how you want it to turn out.
If you put in effort to meet new people, join clubs, and study hard, then things will turn out alright. If you don’t, then that’s okay too! Just don’t think that your magical expectations of knowing every kid in the school is going to come to life.
At the end of the day, you should enjoy your experience, because one day you’ll look back at it knowing that it was just 4 years of your life.
If you guys have any questions or comments, let me know in the comments section below. What’s something you are curious about for high school? Let’s talk!